
You Don’t Need More Clients. You Need Better Ones.
Sep 09, 2025The Real Problem Isn’t Volume
Let’s say this out loud together:
“I don’t need more clients. I need better ones.”
It sounds counterintuitive, doesn’t it? Every marketing message you’ve been fed says:
- Get more leads.
- Run more ads.
- Fill your pipeline.
But you’re not an e-commerce brand selling socks.
You’re a consultant, coach, or expert service provider.
You’re in the business of transformation — not transaction.
And that requires a different game plan.
What a “Better Client” Actually Looks Like
A better client isn’t just someone who pays more.
They:
- Respect your time and boundaries
- Are self-responsible and proactive
- Value results over price
- Trust your expertise (and act on your advice)
- Refer you to others without being asked
They're not unicorns. They're real.
But you won’t find them by shouting louder.
You’ll find them by positioning smarter.
Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Ones
If your current clients are needy, late-paying, or always asking for discounts... it’s not their fault.
It’s yours.
Hear me out — this isn’t blame, it’s clarity.
The types of clients you attract are determined by three positioning cues:
- Your Messaging
If your marketing says “affordable, flexible, available”, guess who you’ll attract?
Bargain-hunters.
- Your Offers
If your offers look like a menu of options or hourly rates, you’re presenting yourself like a vendor, not a trusted advisor.
- Your Boundaries
If you reply to emails at 9pm, say yes to “quick calls”, or chase invoices...
You’re training people how to treat you.
And you’re reinforcing the wrong perception of your value.
The Magnetic Positioning Formula
You don’t need a 27-step funnel or a TikTok content calendar.
You need magnetic clarity.
Here’s the formula:
WHO + WHAT + WHY NOW + WHY YOU
Let’s break it down:
WHO
Define your dream client in language that makes them say, “This is for me.”
Example:
“I work with service-based consultants who are brilliant at what they do — but still underpaid for it.”
WHAT
State the transformation, not the tools.
Example:
“I help them reposition, package and price their expertise so they’re finally paid what they’re worth.”
WHY NOW
Inject urgency by framing the cost of inaction.
Example:
“If you’re still billing by the hour, you’re bleeding value (and you know it). That has to change.”
WHY YOU
Own your difference. Name your experience. Tell a true story.
Example:
“I’ve helped 100+ experts raise their fees, attract premium clients and finally build a life of choice — not obligation.”
When you nail this positioning, dream clients lean in.
They feel seen.
And more importantly — they start seeing you as the solution.
The Quiet Confidence of Filtering Fast
Here’s the twist:
You don’t attract better clients by convincing more people.
You do it by filtering faster.
Who to say no to:
- People asking for discounts in the first message
- Prospects who say “I’ll do anything” but won’t fill out a form
- Clients who’ve burned three past coaches and blame them all
✅ Who to lean into:
- Those who’ve consumed your content and quote it back to you
- Referrals from aligned clients
- People who’ve already tried and failed — and now want a proper partner
Better clients don’t need selling. They need permission to say yes.
And that permission comes when you own your expertise and charge like it.
How You Might Use This in Your Business
Here’s a quick Better Client Magnetism Audit:
Question |
Yes / No |
Is my website or bio clear about who I help and what I help them achieve? |
|
Do I filter clients through a form, diagnostic or call before offering to work with them? |
|
Am I charging for results, not hours or tasks? |
|
Do I feel energised (not drained) after most client calls? |
|
Have I ever said “No, this isn’t the right fit”? |
If you answered “No” to two or more, you’ve got client creep.
But you can fix it — fast.
Try this:
- Rewrite your LinkedIn tagline or homepage intro using the WHO + WHAT + WHY NOW + WHY YOU formula.
- Add a qualifying step before any proposal (e.g. short application or discovery form).
- Remove any language about “affordable” or “quick wins” — unless that’s your actual business model.
- Create a “Who This Is For” and “Who This Isn’t For” section on your offer page.
Want an example?
Check out how www.thepaidbook.com speaks directly to ambitious professionals ready to be richly rewarded for their value.
That’s magnetic positioning.
Final Thought & Call to Action
The moment you stop chasing volume and start choosing value…
Your business transforms.
Your energy shifts.
Your reputation grows.
And your income finally reflects your impact.
So ask yourself today:
“What would it look like if I only worked with clients I loved helping?”
Then build everything around that.
🔗 Want the full playbook on positioning, packaging and pricing your expertise?
Get your copy of my book PAID! at https://www.thepaidbook.com — it’s packed with practical frameworks that help you say goodbye to undercharging forever.
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